ASKING A GIRL OUT FOR A DATE

Asking a girl out on a date can be anxiety provoking. And even though girls are taking the initiative more often than they used to, it is still widely expected that the guy will do the asking, especially for a first date. So guys, if you want to increase your chances of her saying "yes," take a few moments to learn how to ask a girl out before you make your move.
Prepare yourself. Know what you are asking her to do and when, and have a couple of backup options. Expect a yes, but prepare yourself for a no. Approach the girl you like, be straightforward, nice and treat her with respect. Approach her confidently with a smile and your head held up. Engage her in friendly conversation and get to know her a little first.
Tell her your name, compliment her and ask her name. Ask her specific questions. Find out what her interests are and expand on any you or something you both like and share with her. Gauge her interest by using verbal and nonverbal queues. If she is averting her eyes or looking for her friends while not responding well to questions, cut your losses and walk away. However if she is actively engaged in the conversation, ease into your invitation.
After talking for a few minutes, ask something like, “I was thinking of going (somewhere) next weekend, would you like to come along?” Be specific in your activity and be ready with an alternative activity and date if she says “Some other time, maybe.”

Set the date and get her contact information (phone numbers, email, facebook id cos every girl now has one). Follow up with her before the date to verify time and details such as if you will pick her up or meet her there.
Tips and Tricks
• The best way to ask a girl out is in person. If that is not possible due to lack of opportunity or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone. Practice what you will say beforehand if you aren’t confident.
• Make sure you are well groomed and dressed nicely. Don’t overdo it, and make sure to suit your own style. And of course check your breath beforehand!
• If the girl says no, don’t take it personally. Continue the conversation for a little longer, say it was nice talking to her and walk away. The fact that you took her rejection well may even pique her interest. If she isn’t a stranger make more of an effort to get to know her. She may grow to like you and you may get another opportunity to ask her out.
• If she said she was busy to your first offer and you get a similar response to your second date option accept it as a rejection and move on. She is probably trying to be nice.
• Think of subjects to discuss on the date in advance. Good ideas include stories about you, things you want to know about her, family and common interests.
• Do not ask a girl out over email or by instant message.
• Do not use a cheesy pickup line!
• Don’t worry about small breaks in conversation as that’s normal. But if it lasts an excessive amount of time, or she is giving you nonverbal queues that she wants out of the conversation, then politely end it.